Diary 2025-03-25

People who want to discuss

A: People who want to get new and interesting things efficiently through discussion.

win-win

B: People who want to feel smarter than their opponents by arguing and beating them

win-lose

People who don't want to discuss

C: I dislike the composition of the argument in the first place, because if you argue, you usually lose.

The pain of what you don't know

When B and B meet, it's a sterile struggle.

When A sees B, it is interesting while B is trying to win and gives a lot of information, and when B stops giving information, it is boring, so it leaves.

B is happy if he perceives A's leaving as worthwhile

It's unfortunate if you feel disrespected and that you're not a worthy opponent for discussion.

To distract from that misfortune, I insist strongly that I won, because the misfortune interpretation is mitigated by the fact that others think "B won."

When B sees C, he is a good duck, so he goes full bore and expropriates him.

C hates B

A can play to get information out of C, in which case C will be happy to have his story heard

However, when C's experience is conventional, A leaves thinking that there is nothing to gain from C.

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